The real questions are the ones that obtrude upon your consciousness
whether you like it or not, the ones that make your mind start vibrating
like a jackhammer, the ones that you 'come to terms with" only to
discover that they are still there. The real questions refuse to be
placated. They barge into your life at the times when it seems most
important for them to stay away. They are the questions asked most
frequently and answered most inadequately, the ones that reveal their
true natures slowly, reluctantly, most often against your will.
-- Ingrid Bengis
