Halachos of Coffee
In his treatise, HaKafe v'haMitzvot, R. Aaron Schuman writes: It was
revealed at Mount Sinai that Hashem ordained that heat shall flow from
hotter regions to colder. This revelation was preserved as a secret
teaching until R Josiah Gibbowitz (z"l) inscribed it as Hashem's 2nd
Commandment of Thermodynamics. There is a little known mitzvah, "Thou
shalt never stir the cream into thy morning coffee; thereby shall you
observe convection currents and remember My second commandment of
thermodynamics." (Since this is a time-bound mitzvah, women are exempt.)
The parenthetical remark seemed incorrect, a little further research
uncovers a rich tradition of Jewish law brewing around this allegedly
"secret teaching."
Even if we understand that this mitzvah only applies to coffee drunk in
the morning, women are only exempt from mitzvot aseh shehazman grama
[time-bound commandments phrased as "thou shalt"], whereas this is a
mitzvat lo taaseh [phrased as "thou shalt not"]. Therefore we conclude
that women are equally bound to contemplate convection currents. R. Chama
bar Karkar argues that this mitzvah is not really time-bound at all.
What if one only drinks coffee after supper? The mitzvah applies to kos
rishon (the first cup of coffee in each day), whether drunk in the
morning, afternoon or evening. Some delay drinking kos rishon until later
in the day, when they have more time to observe the swirling patterns at
greater length. Do we not pray in the Amida: "v tovotecha shebehol eyt,
erev vavoker vatzohoraim" [(we thank you...) for your goodness at all
times evening, morning and afternoon]? And is not coffee with cream one of
G-d's goodnesses? Therefore our sages maintain that this mitzvah applies
to coffee drunk at any time, not only kos rishon. (Halacha follows this
opinion.) Once again, women and men are both obligated in this mitzvah.
Are Jews, then, commanded to drink coffee? No, but those who do are
considered praiseworthy. What of those who do not drink coffee? They are
obligated to contemplate the coffee of a friend, and to refrain from
stirring it (masechet Shotah, perek Shtayim Shotim B'kos, mishnah kaf-he).
May one contemplate the coffee of a non-Jew? Rambam notes that coffee has
never been used in avodah zarah [idol worship], so one may contemplate it.
The RiTzPa notes that one may not drink it unless it was prepared and
served in kosher vessels, but one may contemplate it even in unkosher
vessels. Later commentators note that Ashkenazim do not do this, and
Sephardim only do it when it will annoy Ashkenazim.
May one prepare the coffee, refrain from stirring, yet not drink? Bet
Hillel say that such a person is yotze, as long as one observes the
convection currents and remembers the 2nd Commandment of Thermodynamics.
Bet Shammai say that one must drink as well. (As usual, we follow Bet
Hillel.) Rashi comments that although one need not drink the coffee, the
coffee must not be wasted, lest we transgress bal tashchit [do not
destroy].
What of coffee drunk following a meat meal? Since real cream is forbidden
in this circumstance, may one observe the mitzvah with pareve ersatz
cream? Rambam says no, since the principle of hiddur mitzvah [beautifying
a commandment] demands that we use the tastiest ingredients we can afford,
and mocha mix is inferior to authentic cream. Hence we do not serve coffee
after meat. (Black coffee does not fulfill the mizvah.) Mishnah Brewrah
notes that those who are especially pious refrain from eating meat at any
time so that they will always be ready to observe this mitzvah with real
cream. So important is real cream that even skim milk is unacceptable
(except for those with certain medical conditions). Concerning hiddur
mitzvah, the Kos Tam (R. Yuban Chockfullanussen) argues that in addition
to fine quality coffee and cream, one must also use fine implements. Not
only must the coffee be served in a delicate cup (with a saucer!), but
when one refrains from stirring, one must refrain from stirring with a
silver spoon. To refrain with a wooden or plastic stick, when a fine spoon
was available, shows disrespect for the Torah and brings disgrace on one's
family.
One should take care to avoid spilling any coffee on the unused stirring
implement, so that nobody will see it and conclude (erroneously) that
stirring is permissible. Likewise, although one may first stir sugar into
coffee and then refrain from stirring after adding cream, those who are
strict do not do this, to avoid wetting the stirrer. Neither may one stir
the coffee first, and then pour in cream while the coffee is still in
motion relying on turbulence to mix the cream. The Torah is explicit that
the purpose is to observe convection currents (which must be generated by
temperature diffential, and not any other motion or current). In recent
years it has become common to use special coffee cups made of glass, so
that one may observe the currents not only from the top, but from the
sides and bottom as well. Harei zeh mishubach, although we do not
invalidate cups made of fine china.